Jiddu Krishnamurti
If you want to understand a child
you must love and not condemn her!
You must play with her, watch her movements.
her idiosyncrasies, ways of behavior
But, if you, merely condemn/resist or blame her
other is no comprehension of the child!
Similarly to understand "What is", one must observe,
what one thinks, feels, and does from moment to moment!
That is the actual!
My Note:
If you analyze, dissect and judge the liveliness goes away
Just as under a microscope, you have to merely the object of study and not dissect it!