Complete ; Don't Compete

 

i don't try to compete with anybody; i try to complete everybody; 

Eknath Eswaran; how to find happiness : pg 17

continuing on the formula of Joy = give/Expect;
last time we say about expectations; the great expectations ; and how i need to reduce that to zero;

and now complement that by giving;
buddha says : " dont ask how much you can get , but how much you can give , in every way possible ; in kitchen, in garden in store, in office, everywhere"

Eswaran says : as a result of completing others , and not competing, i don't feel any tension or fatigue"

To Give is inside-out ; you have it in your control;
To Expect is outside-in; you don't have any control; stop expecting; 

that is way to Joy!