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The Artist's Way

 The War of Art

Steven Pressfield on his daily ritual of writing

I get up; 

take a shower;

Have breakfast;

I have a lucky cannon that I point at my chair;

So that it can fire inspiration in me;

I say my prayer;

And then I plunge in ;

And then for the next 4 hours - I keep typing;

And then when I start making typos 

I know i am getting tired- that's four hours or so

How many pages have I produced?

Are they any good?

I dont care. 

All I care is that I overcame my resistance for one more day!

The secret is that - it's not the writing that is hard

- sitting down to write- that  is hard!!!

2 Rules

Marcus Aurelius

Meditations - pg.16

And remember , there are only 2 rules :

Rule 1 : External things do not touch the soul!

             for they are in constant change -

             while the soul is permanent!

Rule 2 : Our perturbations come only from opinion within!


Take away Thy Opinion!

Marcus Aurelieus

pg.17 Meditations


"I have been harmed" Take away thy complaint ;

"I have been harmed" and harm is taken away; 


Consider that everything that happens, happens Justly!

As if it were done by One , who assigns to each thing its Value!


Then , a person should have 2 rules in readiness : 

1.    To do only whatever the reason of ruling suggests

2.    Change your opinion - if its preceded by reason and common good!

(If you do so)

With in 10 days, you will seem a God to those 

whom you are now a beast 

If you return to principle and worship of reason!

Dont worry about thy neighbor!

Marcus Aurelius 

Meditations - Pg.17 

 Dont worry about thy neighbor!

How much trouble (s)he avoids

    who does not look to see

What her neighbor - says or does or thinks (or feels)

    but only to what she does herself

(only) that it may be Just and Pure!

As Agathon says :

    Look not (a)round at the depraved morals of others

But run straight along the line without deviating from it!

My Notes: geometry analogy : point and line

Have a singular purpose : a point

Keep running towards that point along the straight line 

. guard-railed by Principles!

If possible , take people along with you!

If not move on - without moan, groan or complaint!

Shiny Truths

 

( a light-hearted note- just for humor only no offence intended🙂)

There comes a period in man’s life : when his hairlines are pretty active – I mean – busy falling off;

Hair loss is typically considered the domain of aging men, and this can affect virtually anyone who has a serviceable head,.Particularly in mid-40s, —
hairloss has many causes, the chief one being teenage children —
Every man sheds about 100 hairs each day as part of the normal hair growth cycle. This principle doesn’t apply to Bollywood Actor Anil Kapoor though, who actually gains 100 hairs each hour.
 

My friend : Sridhar (name changed to protect identity) from his original name of Krishnappa – was follicle challenged  - politically correct word for baldness! Especially I don’t want to talk   much about baldness be “Will Smithed” had Chris "Rocked"

Sridhar was going through a huge stress : because ofbaldophobia 
People are so fearful of showing-off their hairless real-estate of their head!...that Hair Experts says that “Hair-Loss” prevention is $5Billion Industry world-wide…with unlimited potential for growth...I mean business growth. People who are follicle challenged can resort to any means to get hair growth back…
 
But I tried to comfort him : through my Self-help books inspiration as  below:

Less is More : Sridhar ,you know : Money or Hair – Less is mOre! Less Hair is a blessing in disguise : because : you can save a lot of money on Shampoo and Hair-creams and Dyes!

Sridhar : thanks for crap motivation talk mukund: what I save on shampoo and hair-creams , I have to spend on face-wash and face-cream as I have an extended forehead!

Then I tried this :

You know Baldness is a great leveler of mankind: It affects the kings and commoners alike – Baldness cuts across – rather shaves across – color,creed  or cultures; Look at Prince Philip! He has been bald since age 8 ; even for that matter : thalaiva rajnikanth is bald:

Sridhar gave me an ironic grin: Prince Philip has Kohinoor crown to cover his head! And Thalaivar does not need hair-style now!

Fellow Toasmasters and Dear guests:

Hair baldness affects 90% of male Population world-wide: ; Scientifically, Baldenss is called as “Alopecia “ – receding hairlines…in its severe form, Baldness becomes : Alopecia Totalis” – total washout! 

UN-WHO Doctors have provided a severe warning on Alopecia Totalis : as it leads to severe Blindness; yes! They have advised patients suffering from alopecia not to venture out during summer without head-cover  ; if not , the glare from sun’s reflections on their balding pate can cause day blindess in totality for the oncoming drivers!

 
More importantly Sridhar , informed me : Mukund ,you don’t know my condition! Its debilitating and I am feeling as if I am another person! Not myself at all!

I tried so many solutions Mukund : Organic and Inorganic:
Organic:
Onion Juice treatement:
Peel, wash and chop your onions then process in a blender (or use a grater). Strain the pulp and extract as much juice as possible, then massage the juice into your scalp. Leave it on for about half an hour…now we don't know if hair will grow but we are sure that none to come near you for the next week.
 
Say you are asked to return to office instead of virtual work,when you used this onion juice on head , This treatment will act as effective  repellent against your boss!
 
 
Tabasco: hot chilli pepper sauce to head!
 
If the thought of a Friday night chilli pepper sauce on Pizza makes your eyes water, then the idea of applying Tabasco to your scalp may well cause steam to gush out your ears.
 
Tabasco has capsaicin, the active ingredient in hot peppers, stimulates hair growth. So, before you grab the Tabasco from the kitchen cupboard and smear it liberally on your bonnet, consider the dangers of it getting in your eyes, the potential burns to your skin and the enduring odour of chilli con carne that’s likely to remain on your person for days.
 
Mukund, I also tried inorganic :
I tried hair Wigs : but my sister is part PETA movement : she threatened me to throw out of house :Say No to Rugs in any form! I had to throw out my wigs!
Finally I had to use age old technique: “Comb-over”
 
Comb it over : essentially you need to cover exposed portion of your head with hair from remaining portion…if you want to know how…you gotta great example in : Donald trump …The king of comb-overs,; Donald Trump, can show you how to do it. Do it any other way and... you're fired!
 
Sridhar said:But that’s not an option for me as I am total bald now:
After this : I could not meet Sridhar for around 5 months; then I saw his WhatsApp DP : full beard-and –all like lockdown get-up! Could see the depression in his eyes!
I had to help my friend here! I was lost for solutions : That’s when I happened to read an article by Carl Jacobi – swiss mathematician ! – he says : Invert always Invert! ( man muss immer umkehren)
 If you want success, for example, dont chase success...instead avoid failures!
Voila! Eureka! I got a breakthrough!
So I took Sridhar's DP photo and inverted it...
With a trimmed photoshopped beard baldness added to his handsomeness
I took Sridhar to nearest saloon : and got him an elegant French-beard! No body called him bald again!
You  think I am hoodwinking you: by growing french beards...ie.,cover their shiny top by growing beards! and believe me it works ; it works because it is founded on essential psychological principle called "Inversion".
Sometimes Truth is also Shiny😉
 
 

 

Beware of 'skaz'

I Think. Therefore I am wrong!

George Saunders , A Swim in the pond in the rain

Skaz meaning - unreliable first-part narration!

The entire drama of life

Skaz-headed person #1 - steps outside

encounters Skaz-headed person #2

Both seeing themselves as the center of the universe

thinking highly of themselves

immediately slightly misunderstanding everything!


Ego!

 A swim in the pond in the rain

-George Saunders

The instant we wake-up the story begins :

"Here I am, in my bed,

Hard worker, Good Dad, Decent Husband

a guy who always tries his best "

....

....

All of this limited thinking has an unfortunate by-product : Ego

who is trying to survive ? "I" am

The mind takes a vast unitary wholeness (the Universe)

selects one tiny segment of it (me)

and starts narrating from that point of view.

Just like that, that entity (George!)

becomes real, and he is (surprise, surprise)

located at the exact center of the universe

and everything is happening in his movie

....

....

It is all, somehow, both for and about him

In this way, the moral judgment    arise :

what is good for George is - good

what is bad for him is -bad!

so in every instant , a delusional gulf gets created between

Things as we think they are! and

Things as they actually are!

Attention without motive

Gratification is the 8th wonder of the world!!!

From Twitter 

Due to my "Goals mindset" I am getting into this "hedonic treadmill" - where even after a significant accomplishment - I feel ecstatic at first, but after a while, I  get used to the new accomplishment and go back to the previous level of happiness.

Result : I land with a longing sense of gap - not the gains accomplished...resulting in lack of contentedness and gratification.

For example, take case of my jogging:

first day I run freely no expectations on running continuously or time taken; 

But the second day the baseline sets in and I try to outperform myself over previous and so on each day;

At some point fatigue sets in , I refuse to start ; due to the goals I have to accomplish!

The same happened with my podcasting and many other hobbies.

So what I need to do:

I need to put in my focus : without worrying about outcomes

Attention without motive;

Having started is the bonus ....This shall be my motto!



Self Architecture

 (Inspired and Stolen from Dan Koe 😉)

The beauty of Human is - (S)he is both the marble and the Sculptor...Alexis Carrel

Be a Self-Architect

Take up a Challenge 

Take up "One Thing"

-To Fix your health - Say Chisel your body

-To Fix your finances - Shape-up your Wealth

-To fix your mindset - Sculpt your Mind

and work on that "One Thing"

every day , for at least 30 minutes

Pure focus without motive

Attention

And then keep doing it day after day

and see the ideas emerge 

and coalesce and shape your personality!


The Art of Craft

 I try to be immediate, to be totally present for all my work"

-Maya Angelou, Author

"My responsibility as a write is to be

as good as I can be at my craft

So I study my craft...learning the craft

understanding what language can do , 

gaining control of the language

enables one to make people weep, laugh 

or even make them go to war.

You can do this by learning how to harness the power of the word.

So studying my craft is one of my responsibilities.

The other one is to be as good a human being I can be.

So that once I have achieved the control of the language

I don't force my weaknesses on a public-

who might pick them and abuse themselves! "

How to write impactfully

 (From a post on Amazon narratives)


Separate out Writing from Editing!

Write a first draft without worrying about the clutter

All first drafts of everything are garbage...Ernest Hemingway 

 Edit the draft into subsequent drafts using rules of Amazon below: see below an edit Hemingway quote above 😁

The first draft of anything is sh*t 😁 

1.    Use shorter than 30 words per sentence!

    Due to the fact that => because

2.    Replace adjectives    with data   

  •     we made the server faster vs we improved the server latency from 10ms to 1ms

3. Eliminate Weasel words

    -nearly all customers should be 80% of Prime Customers

4.    Does your writing pass the "So what" test?

5. If you get a question reply with one of the four answers

    a. Yes

    b. No

    c. A number

    d. I don't know (will follow up and let you know)

Developing one's own style

 Karaikudi Mani

(Famous Indian Percussionist - Mridangam)

Start with what you know

Keep practicing.

Until a new idea emerges

Try it out.

Keep doing it again and again

Eventually you develop your own unique style

Lying Fallow

 Don't let outer noise

drown your inner voice!

Masud R Khan, Hidden Selves

'Lying Fallow' -  a state in which  our inner voice becomes audible,

the voice with which we sing the song of our lives;

'Lying Fallow' - 

    not one of Inertia

    listless vacancy

    or idle quietism of the soul

    nor a flight from harassed purposiveness and pragmatic action!


Lying Fallow -

is a transitional state of experience

a mode of being that is alerted quietitude

and receptive wakeful lambert consciousness

Lying fallow -

is how we begin to nourish ourselves.

how we begin to take responsibility for ourselves

against development    of narcissistic personality style

one that makes myriad outward demands on the world

with little comprehension of the necessity of the responsibilities

for an inner relation to its own self!

Things happen twice!

 Things happen twice - once in brain and then physically

Arnold Bennett, The Human Machine

All stuff foolish or intelligent happen twice -

once in the brain and then physically

first in the psychological plane - as thoughts, ideas, hallucinations

and then in the physical plane; actions

Consider this scenario:

Say someone did something wrong (in your opinion :-) )

This acts as a stimulus to your brain and you react! 

This is what Fools do : Stimulus => Action (mostly mindless)

One stimulus and you react !

Rather the question is can you train your brain for stimulus as below?

Stimulus => Observe => Outcome

Key aspect is self-awareness to observe what is happening in your brain? 

Am i observing ; "What is" : happening to me now

I am happy , I am angry, I am egoistic

If so, Congratulations Sir and Madam

you are living  in a different plane of existence! - the realm of the Spiritual!


Antidote for Foolishness

There is an antidote to making a fool of oneself.  Say to your brain : From 9 am to 9:30 am today, you must focus without ceasing on a particular topic - which I will give you

Arnold Bennett , The Human Machine 

Focus is the foundational habit on which the edifica called Character will rest upon

I need to be the architect of my character - not to be misled by 

instant pleasure and impulses

rather by thoughtful habits - forethought - by design - a blue-print for Life by below steps:

1. Set aside 30 minutes every day ,at same time , say 9 to 9:30 AM 

2. Take one Idea (as if this is the central point of your life as of now)

3. Pure attention without motive (as J Krishnamurti Says) for the next 30 minutes...no goals...nothing...just be attentive on the topic on hand

4. Write about your idea as much as possible

If you do so above, then you are better positioned to deal with the clumsiness of daily life - not behaving like a fool - veering from plan to plan


Amateurish Life and Professional Life

 We finish our lives amateurishly, as we began them; 

-Arnold Bennett, The Human Machine

Most of us live an amateurish life - focusing only on the preliminaries -

Food, Clothing, Shelter - and more Shelter - 

focusing on the materialistic possessions -The Gross and the Dross!

without enough focus on Mind - The Subtle 

And end up leading a life by default - not by design

getting carried away by Others' - Ideas, Possessions and Positions

Rather we need to be a :A Professional in Life 

One who directs attentional to Self as a Whole,

traveling through this world

with satisfaction to self

as other who meet her enroute!

Private practices and public work

 Maria Popova

Only a small portion of the creative work

We can see and touch in the works of art,

We can point to made possible and Alive 

By all the invisible devotion and despair

that animate the maker's life

and full the days and hours

that occupy the heart and hands

these private practices are anchors of safetyanchors

vital to the public work

for they are vital to the soul from

which creative work begins





Ego

Bertrand Russell

Make your interests gradually wider

And more impersonal

Until bit by bit the walls of ego

Recede and your life becomes

Increasingly merged in the universal life!!!

Maria Popova states this way about ego

Don't act centripetally

Focusing only on activity towards self

and not the Universe

Rather act centrifugal

Unfurling from the self

To the world touching

More and more facets of it



Problem (dis)solving

 don't solve for the problem

dissolve the problem

not solution

Dissolution is the answer!!!

When it's about problems

Be a Chemist 

Not a mathematician !!!

Mukund

Understanding 'What is'

 The book of life ...Jiddu Krishnamurti

It is the man who is consumed by the intellect

who has beliefs , because intellect is always 

seeking serenity,protection;

It is always avoiding danger and therefore

it builds ideas ,beliefs,ideals behind 

which it can take shelter.

to understand 'What is' is more important

than to create and follow ideals 

because Ideals is false - 'What is' is the real;

To understand 'What is' means to

understand what is false in

- My relationship

-ideas

-things about me

because to perceive the truth requires understanding of the false

when the mind sees that which is false

then that which is true comes into being